When you are in a relationship any type of flirting may get you in trouble if you take it too far. You have to remember that the person that you are in a relationship with may have loved it when you were flirting with them but when it is someone else they may not appreciate it and find it disrespectful.
The art of flirting has been around since the beginning of time. How else do you think Eve got Adam to eat that apple? We all have used it to get the attention of someone we are interested in. The one's that are best at it are the ones that are confident. They are not afraid to let you know that they are interested.
For many flirting is just a game. It is a way of proving that they still have that special something that can attract the opposite sex. They may have no intention of ever doing anything about it, they just want to know that they could if they chose to.
When you are in a relationship sometimes flirting can get you in trouble. It can go too far.
The person you are in a relationship with needs to be secure in that relationship or it will not last. If you are an outrageous flirt and go over board all the time that relationship doesn't stand much of a chance.
Some people are alright with dating a flirt. They understand that it is just their personality and they really don't mean anything by it. It may even be the reason that they are with them in the first place. But even that knowledge can't save you if you go too far.
When you progress from just a game and being playful to exchanging information with someone or even worse touching them inappropriately, you have gone too far. You are no longer just having fun. You are being disrespectful of the person you are with.
If you are going too far you may want to consider your reasons. You may not want to be in the relationship that you are currently in and should get out of it. It may be your way of pushing the person you are with away so that they leave you and you can be free to do as you please.
If you are a flirt, there is nothing wrong with it if the person you are with is alright with it. Just keep your hands to yourself and everyone should be alright.
