Girls don’t really need to be drop dead gorgeous to be successful at flirting with a guy because anyone can do it. The key is to know the right way to do it so that you are able to impress the guy and let him know you’re interested. When you do that, you may find out that he likes you too.
These tips are not set in stone, but can be incorporated into your own personal style and are for girls of all dating ages. By using some of these tips you may just become irresistible. So here we go.
Start by being aware of your appearance.
To be successful when flirting with guys you need to pay particular attention to your appearance. That does not mean you need to dress provocatively, but wear clean, comfortable and elegant clothes which make you feel good and confident in yourself. Some of the fashions don’t go out of style so you don’t need to spend a small fortune. Some possibilities are a sun dress that is cute, a solid cami or tank or some darker slimming jeans. Make sure to also keep yourself clean, use deodorants, paint your nails, a soft sweet perfume and a hairstyle that is nice.
Your best success will come on your own.
By staying away from groups a guy will be more willing to approach you than if you are among a larger group. No one wants to run the risk of rejection in front of a group of people and he might feel as if he would be interrupting by approaching you.
So try to break away if only for a little while to give him a few moments when he feels he can approach you comfortably. If you try to close the distance gap a little, he may feel more inclined to take advantage of the opportunity.
Here are some tips on how to act flirty.
Play with your hair – Give your hair a casual flip over your shoulder, run your hands through it and push it behind your ear or give it a gentle twist.
Make eye contact – Give him a stare that lingers to make his heart skip a beat. A playful stare that lasts about 2 or 3 seconds with a smile as you slowly glance away is an effective way to flirt. When you are talking to the guy take just a couple seconds to look away from his eyes and pause around his chest. He will get a chill as he realizes that you were checking him out.
Give him a compliment – Don’t just make up one, but make sure it is a true compliment so there is sincerity in it.
Try touching him – You can send chills up a man’s spine if you brush him the right way. When you laugh give him a gentle tap or hold his hand if you get nervous. When you are tired rest your head on his shoulder. These will give him the feeling of comforting you and strength.
Don’t forget to smile and laugh – They say that the sexiest thing a woman can do is smile. Perfect it with practice so it looks natural even in awkward situations. Laugh along with it to make it sweet and more seductive.
Move in and start talking.
Try to get things started by approaching him and starting a conversation and here is a great opening line “hello!” Try to avoid making it obvious that you like him, but do look him in the eye with confidence and a little affection. During the conversation try to find out what things you may have in common by asking a question or for a little assistance.
Try to find out more about him.
Now that you are talking try to find out if he is really your type. Do you feel comfortable being around him and having a conversation with him or is he pushy? If it does turn out that he is not your type you can easily excuse yourself, but remember not to be rude about it as you initiated it by being flirtatious.
If you do feel that he is interested and you are also, just take is one step at a time. Get to know each other by hanging out and become friends first. After that it might lead to more.