When you are in a relationship with someone you want to know that the people that are close to them like you. It is difficult when your partners friends don't like you and it can make things harder on you and your partner. If your girlfriend or boyfriends friends don't like you here are some things that you can do to try to make the situation easier:
First you will want to know why they don't like you. If your partner tells you that they don't know then you may want to approach his friends and see what it is about you that they don't like. You won't be able to know what your options are to fix the situation if you are completely unaware of their reasonings for not liking you. It's important that you find out the reasons behind the dislike so that you can begin to resolve the issues, so even though it may be uncomfortable for you to come out and ask your partners friends why they don't like you, it is crucial that you do it.
When you hear why your partners friends don't like you, you may be in for an awakening. You may hear a lot of thinks that will make you mad and hurt your feelings. This is ok; you need to get through this before you can figure out how to fix it. Be prepared for what you are going to hear because a lot of the reasons may have to do with how you treat your partner. If there is truth behind their reasoning then you should consider taking a look at yourself and seeing if there are things that you should work on yourself.
Once you know why your partners friends don't like you then you can sit down with your partner and discuss the best way to handle the situation. Since these are their friends you should discuss this with them. If there are friends that actually try to break the two of you up then your partner should put a stop to the behavior or make a decision to end the friendship. Your partner should take in having a large part in fixing why their friends don't like you, they should not leave you to deal with it alone. If they don't help you then you should begin by working on whatever is lacking in your relationship with them before you move on to worrying about the friends.
